7.24.2004

High School Friends

Wow. My best friend from high school came to visit me this weekend. She had planned to go to Las Vegas with one of her coworkers for a couple of days and then travel down to Arizona to visit me. I was a little nervous about the visit, but things turned out fine.

I have a lot of friends, but I have a hard time establishing really good friends. When I was younger we moved a lot so I didn't really get to keep in touch. Since I have left home and gotten married my husband went into the military. I made good friends but not only did I move, they did too. My friend that came to visit is very unpredictable.

When we were younger she had this huge competition thing with me. I never felt that way at all toward women in general. I feel that way when I play sports. I have never really understood that feeling. Anyway we hated and loved each other during this time. Her parents deprived her of a lot of love, but gave her everything else. My mom was an alcoholic, but was an excellent communicator (feeler).

There have been several times in my life when I have felt I no longer have anything in common with her. I felt like what's the point of continuing this friendship? I have been friends with her for almost 15 years.

I had a really nice visit with her. She seems to have grown a lot. It got me thinking about other people in high school though.

Nathan if your out there I miss you.