My t.v.s missing so now I have to have sex.

So Michael and I bought a television from Best Buy a while back. It started to have high pitch squeal. So I called the repairman and they took our big t.v. away. So if Michael and I want to watch television, we have to go into the bedroom.

Do you ever notice the more sex you have the more your partner wants? I mean I am trying to watch a forensics show and ka-pow, Michael is turned on. I started making little check marks in my exercise journal to see how much sex we were actually having. I found out, it’s quite a bit.

How many times a week do you think is appropriate? How many times do you do it a week? When you don't want to do it, what's the main recurring reason?

I think four/five out of seven days is good depending on the week. I think most people have sex two days out of seven. When I don't want to it, it is usually because my back hurts or Michael hasn't seen or talked to me all day. I don't understand how he isn’t around me until bed and then just want to go at it. I don't work that way. Maybe I am a prude.

Is it possible to be modest and not be a prude? I consider myself pretty explorative in the bedroom. I don't think of freaky things to do, that's all Michael. I do indulge him though. So what does make me? I think compared to Michael I look like the pope.

As I talk to other men I am learning that there are some things that other women are incapable of doing (i.e. feet over head). There are also women who refuse to try some things, even once. I just assumed that my abilities in bed were average. Maybe they are average but I am willing to try new things, communicate with my partner, and just enjoy it. Every woman in the world thinks she gives the world's best blowjob. This isn't true. If you just finish giving head to your man and he said it was just all right you probably wouldn't be giving it to him too often. So you see, communication in the bedroom can be a catch 22. It's amazing how many people take stuff for granted. Michael and I talk about sex pretty openly. I was surprised to find out not many couples do. What's up with that?

Anyway, back on the topic. It seems to me having to watch t.v. in the bedroom is making him more randy. I need our t.v. back Mr. repairman.